We need a good laugh…

Madea Goes To Jail

Thank you, Tyler Perry, Madea!

You come to us just as we are questioning the good sense and integrity of the Good Old Party (GOP – Republicans), the “Fearful for My Life” local and state police and the ever-retarded editorial staff of the NY Post. Thank you for allowing us to take the good with the bad as we take load off our already weary and weighted shoulders. See you at the movies.

Thank you, Moms Mabley, Redd Foxx, Richard Pryor, Pigmeat Markham, Dole-Mite, Bill Cosby, and all the rest of you Pioneers in Comedy. We needed you then, and God knows, we need you now!

A special thanks to all the up’n coming comedy stars: You have your work cut out for you, but we know that these crazy politicians, and this meat and potatoes economic environment will give you plenty of fuel to add to your fire.

Be blessed and take good care of yourselves.

We’re counting on you!

HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY

Parents

Allen and Louise Burnside, July 18, 1967

If you say you love me….

My Grandmother used to say,
“If you say you love the man, then you should love his dog named Joe.”

Meaning that as his wife you should love his children, his life, his family and his critters. It makes life so much easier.

That’s what my Mama Lou did. And she is very precious to my entire family.

So Here’s an “I Love You” to all the step-mothers and step-fathers
who put in the extra time, effort and yes, LOVE to their
Spouse’s Children, Lives, Families and Critters.

And to the children, family members, critters:
Be good to the woman or man who didn’t mind loving and caring for
OPC’s: Other People’s Children.

That woman or man is Very Special.

So call them, or drop by or send them a card – especially if your original parent(s) are no longer with you.

They deserve it!

PUT FOLKS TO WORK ON THIS!

get to work on this

Hello…. Out There!

600,000 People are still without electricity across the Midwest! And there are a couple million folks out of work….Hmmm…Don’t you think these out-of-work folks would welcome the chance to help out fellow citizens and GET PAID?!

I am from the Midwest – Northern Indiana – and I shoveled snow and cleaned up after ice storms for a living, from the age of 11 – 14. I learned how to layer and keep as dry as possible as I worked out in the often sub-freezing weather. Kindnesses of neighbors and strangers alike kept me from freezing to death or losing limbs.

And I showed up for work without fail.

Family and friends and local utilities companies do all they can, but to hear that it might be mid-February before the electricity is restored – is a DISASTER!

Unless you’ve spent time in icy cold winds and freezing (no heat) conditions, you cannot appreciate how much electricity is essential to LIFE…

Life for humans, pets, farm animals, etc.

And what about the people who may not even know what lies ahead for them as they huddle around their gas stoves for heat? A TV is essential, Radio critical – but oops, they are run by electricity, right? And that gas stove has so much carbon monoxide poisoning potential….

So why not put workers to work? Collective efforts could get the situation straightened out in days, not weeks.

Hello, FEMA, Homeland Security….Are you there? Why aren’t you listening/thinking?

Happy Birthday To Ya!

MARTIN LUTHER KING, JR.

January 15, 1929 - April 4, 1968

80 years

Civil Rights Leader

Husband

Father

Son

Orator

Nobel Peace Prize Winner

Baptist Minister

Man With a Dream

Long Live the King!

7 Steps to Happily Ever After With Your Lover

Black Love

I was looking at old pictures and feeling good about all the couples I saw, so I threw together this quick guide:

The 7 Steps to Happily Ever After With Your Lover

Step 1: Find a shared dream for your life together.

Step 2: Ignite (and reignite) a sexual connection.

Step 3: You and Your Lover are TEAM 1!

Step 4: Fight Fair.

Step 5: Establish time

    a) Just for Two and
    b) Just for You.

Step 6: In-Laws, family and friends are Team 2!

Step 7: Establish Lifetime Friendship with each other.

    Surprise each other.
    Work together.
    Pray together.
    Play together.

The Cost of Unhealthy Fear

Fear

Unhealthy Fear is such a useless and harmful emotion. It clouds our minds and hearts and robs us of our joy…

Did you know what the true enemy of God is? Satan or Lucifer? Not really; he was once favored. Hatred? No, too close to love – like the opposite sides of the same coin.

Ok, you guessed right, it is unhealthy fear; an irrational, emotional response to illogical threat and/or danger.

Fear is healthy when we are faced with real threats and immediate dangers.
Sistah Saints know when to fight or flight with the best of them – We have all lamented, “Hold my earrings for me til I finish up here.” Or “Feet don’t fail me now!

But that internal, churning fear that makes us unhappy and gives paralysis to our willpower – in other words, Stops us in our Tracks – that, is unhealthy fear. The unhealthy fear that gives us brain freeze and separates us from God because where fear lives, God cannot dwell.

Most of our present fears are rooted in what Buddhism identifies as “delusions” – distorted ways of looking at ourselves and the world around us. If we learn to control our mind, and reduce and eventually eliminate these delusions, the source of all our fear, healthy and unhealthy, is eradicated.

Seek help, therapy, good advice when it comes to unhealthy fear. Talk it out. Set Goals. Defeat the Enemy (Unhealthy Fear).

Once we have done this, we become fearless.

Merry Christmas!

Eartha Kitt

Usually this time of year, in addition to celebrating Christmas, we take a moment to reflect upon our lives and those who have touched us over the years. We cherish our loved ones and pay homage to the memories of those who are no longer with us.

Bless you, Ms. Eartha Kitt. You were one in a million — Speaking the truth about Vietnam (and suffering professionally for your courage).

And keeping things “stuuurrrred up” with your undeniable sex appeal.
We know they created that “Cougar” title just for Y-O-U … America’s ultimate Sex Kitten. We will truly miss you Eartha Mae. our favorite “little urchin cotton-picker from the south” [Her favorite self-description, for those who didn’t know]

We Miss You Donny

Donny Hathaway

This Christmas. Donny Hathaway’s 1972 Christmas hit is now playing on three
Los Angeles radio stations: a local R&B station, a national, syndicated pop station and as an intro for a PBS radio talk show.

Who knew?

That a shy little Ghetto Boy from St. Louis would affect American Music in just a short, ten-year period of genius work?

I first met/shouted out to Donny as he was playing organ and directing multiple choirs at a Westside AME Church that was sponsoring a gospel concert to help him raise money to attend Howard University.

Everyone on the block had talked about “that Donny boy” and how he was putting together a gospel concert on Sunday. Softball was king during the summer of the 1960’s, especially for girls. Especially on Sundays. My sisters, cousins and I begged and pouted, until our softball coach finally let us leave our game early to attend the concert (and since we were leading 12-2).

But we were still late making the concert. There were no inside seats available, so we sat out on the grass, spellbound as Donny worked his magic. He had at least four major choirs/singing groups:

• An Acapella Choir that sang Old Gospel
• A Rock-Church (Pentecostal) Choir that was jumping
• An AME Choir that inter-weaved all the other choirs with a Donny-special arrangement of Ave Maria
• An old fashioned quintet singing group, much like The Soul Stirrers

Donny took the entire church to a special gospel heaven, along with the masses outside, and the heart and soul of a young teenage girl. I edged forward, mouth-agape, into the doorway entrance, just to get a glimpse of the animated, former gospel prodigy, little Donny Pitts. Donny seemed to become a part of the music as he orchestrated the choirs with unbridled passion.

As the years passed, I forgot about Donny Pitts, but during my sixth month of pregnancy in 1970, I was awakened by my in-vitro baby girl kicking and jumping to “The Ghetto” – a new hit song on an Underground Radio Station in Chicago (FM).

A year later, I was listening to the same station when I became totally dumb-struck during my lunch hour. Somebody was singing “Giving Up (Is so hard to do). Just then, my boss decided to approach me with a brilliant, inspirational technical idea that he wanted me to take down in shorthand for him. I gave him the “Hold on, one minute” hand signal. Then I put my head down right in front of the office radio and was saturated with the song, the music, that voice.

My boss approached my desk again, but backed away when I gave him the Evil Eye. Just as he reached the door, he called back over his shoulder, “That’s Donny Hathaway. I have extra tickets for his show tonight if you can tear yourself away from that radio and get back to work.” (How about my boss was friends with Curtis Mayfield – Donny’s boss?)

I called my best friend, we made plans. I got pen and pad and managed to beat my boss to his chair as I flopped into the seat across from him, eyes raking his desk for those Donny Hathaway tickets.

From that moment on, I was committed and addicted to Donny. That commitment and addiction has out-lasted a marriage, helped me to get over many broken relationships and aided me in being a better, single parent.

The light that was Donny Hathaway went out in 1979.

As life sometimes has it, by coincidence, my family and I were on our way to my father’s funeral when I saw a sea of humanity walking uphill to a large Baptist Church. It reminded me of another time when we walked to another church for a much happier occasion. My sister commented that she heard that Jessie Jackson, Roberta Flack and Stevie Wonder were going to attend Donny Hathaway’s funeral.

It wasn’t until that moment that I put the obvious together – Donny (of my youth) was also my music hero - Donny Hathaway.

Now as I sing to This Christmas, along with the radio Morning Crew, I am just as blown away as ever by how GOOD this song sounds. Like Donny, it is a classic.

From one shy, little ghetto child to another, Lots of Love.

We still miss you, Donny.

Carol

Tis the Season

Medicines

…for Sniffling, Sneezing, Coughing, Aching, Stuffy Heads, and Fevers.

Those old Nyquil commercials have summed up the current medical condition of practically everybody we know on this end. Even my usually germaphobic daughter slipped up this year and found herself diagnosed with pneumonia last week.

Folks, we’ve gotta take time out from caring for everybody else, and check on ourselves. Once you get passed 50, it gets harder and harder to shake those simple illnesses. And those irritating coughs tend to develop into serious illnesses much more quickly than in the past.

So take care of yourself this cold & flu season.

“THROWDOWN” INAUGURATION HOUSE PARTY (with a purpose)

COME ONE, COME ALL!

Welcome to SISTAH SAINTS throwdown Inauguration House Party!

Where we will keep warm and dry as we decry,“Say it Loud, I’m Black & I’m Proud!”

And show you JUNIORS how to have BIG FUN!

Just check out our Sistahs from Detroit/Motortown:


We wish you young’ns could have seen us at our CABARET sets in Philadelphia,

Or

Jump the stump at an old Chicago Blues/Juke Joint.

And

See how we turnedthe place out with our twist and shout at Loretta’s High Hat spot.

But we’ve hung up our dancing shoes from

The Apollo

Maverick Flats - That’s Where I’s At

Regal Theatre

Sweet Auburn Club

IBEW Halls

The Dunbar Hotel

Club Delisa

High Chapparal

Fox Theatre

The Savoy

Grand Ballroom

Club Madre, Etc.

YET…

We still have a SLIDE or two left in us.

So as you Juniors also usher in our 44th President,

Barrack Hussein Obama

Remember…

Lawdy, Miss Claudy - Sistah Saints are throwing down

And we O.G.’s (Old Girls) are giving this House Party with a Purpose :

“YES, IN OUR LIFETIME!”