Nana, Please help me! 

There is an elderly man at my spa that keeps asking me if he can massage my feet when I sit in the Jacuzzi.  I let him do it once (it actually felt pretty good) but I think he may have some sort of foot fetish. He is a hot-blooded Italian, named Sebastian.  What do you think?     ~Shoeless at the Spa

Shoeless,

Part of your answer lies within yourself.  You obviously like the massage and you also like Sebastian enough to know his name, background, and you are weighing whether or not you can handle his possible foot fetish. A man with good hands and  a caring heart is hard to find.  He sounds like a keeper.  Bring him to your next Senior Event and see how he plays out with your friends.      ~Nana